GOING WITH THE FLOW
Today I wanted to gather my crew with me to talk about this saying: "Just go with the flow". There are so many quotes that are being shared in the social media without really even thinking what it actually means. And if you are not fully in your own power and you don't know your own truth, these kind of quotes can cause a lot of anxiety. Or thoughts of "not being brave or good enough".
Because I am now in front of "going with the flow", I wanted to really think about this and understand what this means to me. So that it is not just a phrase that I have heard or read somewhere, but that I truly know what is my truth about this.
So, I gave up my house in new year and very soon I am leaving. I have to say that Roger (my ego) and Victoria (my higher self) have had quite strong argues about where we are supposed to go. Roger just can't relax and trust. He HAS TO KNOW! He just has to have a plan. He needs me to feel safe. And Victoria keeps assuring him, that all will be fine and that our crew don't have to worry about anything. But he just won't listen. So he keeps pushing me to the computer to look for houses or trips, hotels and flights and so I do just to keep him quiet. But as I do this, I feel this old control and push, this "forcing things to happen", instead of just letting things be, like Victoria is trying to tell us.
So finally Cynthia (my god fairy) tells us that why not, we give Roger a class of sparkling wine, so that he could relax a bit and so we do. And now, finally we can have a nice chat without pushing and pulling. We are laughing to him, because he seems to get a little bit tipsy and he is so funny, when he is like this. He is just having this grin in his face and he seems to enjoy the taste of the sparkling wine. Little giggles are coming out every now and then and he wants us to put some music on. He likes to dance when he is tipsy. Oh my, we just absolutely love him! And for sure, we want to see this kind of Roger more often!
So I am in front of something new. And I for sure don't want to control anything, not like Roger. So as he is sipping his sparkling wine, we decide to make a plan just to keep him quiet and relaxed. And so we do. At least, now, we know where to go at the end of this month "if nothing else comes up". At least Roger is now satisfied and quiet. But I can see Victoria smiling. She is quiet, she is allowing Roger to have this plan, but I have this weird feeling, that she knows something that she is not telling me. We THINK that now we know what is going to happen at the end of this month, but the truth is, we don't. It might go as planned, but it might not. But at least, now, Roger and Victoria don't have to argue about it, but our whole crew can relax.
"So Victoria, please explain to me how you see this - going with the flow - thing", I say to her.
"Well, actually there is no one explanation. There is no one way to "go with the flow". It is different in every moment. Right now, for us, it is this. We make a plan, but we are not attached to it. So if something else happens, we allow it to be so. Also, sometimes, going with the flow means that you get this deep inner knowing what you need to do. You don't know how it is going to end up, but you do it anyway. This could be anything. Leaving a job or a partner. You just have this deep inner knowing, that this situation is not good for you anymore and that you have to do something. Sometimes you might even do it without knowing how you are going to get money or where this road of getting singe again might take you, but you are following you heart anyway. This is one way of going with the flow and remember, always, every singe time, you do something brave like this, the Universe will have your back. This means that "when one door closes, other one opens". This takes a lot of trust and courage, but things will always work out, one way or another. Flow", she smiles.
"Also, "going with the flow" means that you might have an insight about what is your next step. It might be a new place to go to without knowing where it leads you, but you just follow this inner guidance. Going with the flow is something that is so personal. You might make a travel plan for six months, but inside that six months, you allow things to happen naturally without planning that much. Or you make some plans and leave some open. Again, flow."
"Isn't it so, that "going with the flow" means, that you can make a plan, but you are not attached to the outcome", asks Cynthia. "Yes love, you are right. This is one way of "going with the flow", answers Victoria.
"If I am totally honest, you Saija, are the only one who can define what "going with the flow" means to you in each moment. Sometimes you know what to do and where to go, sometimes you know some and you go anyway without knowing the outcome. "Going with the flow" is like this "gut feeling" you have and when you are following that, you are in the flow. Sometimes with a plan, sometimes half plan and sometimes just knowing a miner thing and jumping into the unknown. Basically what I would say is "WHEN YOU FOLLOW YOUR HEART, YOU ARE GOING WITH THE FLOW. Always. Just remember, that your life is your responsibility. So you have to decide and then the Universe will work with you. But it will not do it FOR you. If you want to win a million in lottery, Universe can not take your coupon to the shop, you have to do it. And then, only then, if is in your soul path, you might have a chance to win that million. You understand?", says Victoria.
Sure, I get it very well. And I have to be honest. There has been times where I have put the responsibility to Universes shoulders and it did not work!
Roger has been quiet, but now he says, "why didn't we do this before? Make a plan, but then allow it to flow. Why did we have to struggle with this with you Victoria?"
"Well, we are here to learn this co-operation between you and me and we did learn a lot, didn't we? And the thing is, we can never make wrong decisions. Never! We are here to learn, so what ever decision we make, it is always the right one in that moment."
Victoria is quiet for a while, but eventually she just can't keep the truth from us anymore. So she says, "Guys, if I am totally honest, the truth about this whole concept of "going with the flow...."
"The truth is that the Universe ALLOWS you to think that you are in control, but if this source power sees that you are doing something that is not meant for you, it will give you a nudge to the right direction. It can happen with a help of a friend or a stranger. It can happen through inner knowing or through synchronic events. Let me give you an example."
"Let's say that you don't want to work in you working place anymore, but you are afraid to leave. So you keep on going and you keep on having this anxiety and this unhappiness and for sure, it doesn't get less, quite the opposite. If you don't have a courage to follow these ques that your body is trying to send you, eventually, "the Universe will step in". This means that maybe in the working place things are starting to get worse and worse. More and more things are happening that are pushing you out of your comfort zone. Until there comes this big event and you are already so fed up, that you just quit without thinking it too much anymore. The only thing you have in your mind is "anything is better then this!" Yes babes, going with the flow!", she laughs.
"If your souls path is to stay in the same job for all your life, then this is what you signed in, before you were born. Then this is the way to get your lessons that you are meant to get in this lifetime. It doesn't mean that you are not "in the flow". The Universe keeps us all ALWAYS in the flow, but this happens in unique ways. In a way that was agreed by your soul before coming to earth. So "going with the flow" has nothing to do with courage, because flow is ever present. Some people make more bold moves, some live more solid life. And yet, there is always a flow."
"As you can see, you are always always taken care of. You truly are always in the flow. The though of "this one is going with the flow and this one is not", is just another way for people to create a separation between one another. Control is a man made concept, but in the Universes, this doesn't exist. If you look at animals or nature, there is a perfect flow all the time without any resistance. Humans have just forgotten this, but everything in this Universe is flowing. So what I am trying to say is, that you are actually always "in the flow", you just have forgotten this", says Victoria with a smile in her face. "How easy life would be, if we wouldn't fight against this flow. There would be so much less suffering and so much more joy."
I just absolutely love this!!! How easy can life be! I don't EVER have to worry about "living right" or "going with the flow", because I AM ALWAYS IN THE FLOW and I CAN NOT MAKE WRONG DECISIONS! Wow! Me and Cynthia are clapping our hands, we are so happy!
And now, we are asking Roger to get us classes and share his sparkling wine with us. This is big for me. And to Roger. "Can you imagine Roger how much easier life would be for you if you just would surrender?", I laugh. "I sooooo agree!", he says and takes a sip from his class. "Actually, I want to retire!", he declares laughing.
"Oh no love, I will not let you go as long as I am in this human body. You are stuck with me", I tell him. He comes to me, hugs me tightly and says that he wouldn't like to be anywhere else. And then we all toast to our lovely, beautiful crew! We all agree, we did learn a lot from Victoria today. She is absolutely amazing! Now, we are all happy and relaxed, we have at least one plan and at the same time, we are letting it flow. And we are now at peace with this. So we let it flow, we let it flow.....
Because I am now in front of "going with the flow", I wanted to really think about this and understand what this means to me. So that it is not just a phrase that I have heard or read somewhere, but that I truly know what is my truth about this.
So, I gave up my house in new year and very soon I am leaving. I have to say that Roger (my ego) and Victoria (my higher self) have had quite strong argues about where we are supposed to go. Roger just can't relax and trust. He HAS TO KNOW! He just has to have a plan. He needs me to feel safe. And Victoria keeps assuring him, that all will be fine and that our crew don't have to worry about anything. But he just won't listen. So he keeps pushing me to the computer to look for houses or trips, hotels and flights and so I do just to keep him quiet. But as I do this, I feel this old control and push, this "forcing things to happen", instead of just letting things be, like Victoria is trying to tell us.
So finally Cynthia (my god fairy) tells us that why not, we give Roger a class of sparkling wine, so that he could relax a bit and so we do. And now, finally we can have a nice chat without pushing and pulling. We are laughing to him, because he seems to get a little bit tipsy and he is so funny, when he is like this. He is just having this grin in his face and he seems to enjoy the taste of the sparkling wine. Little giggles are coming out every now and then and he wants us to put some music on. He likes to dance when he is tipsy. Oh my, we just absolutely love him! And for sure, we want to see this kind of Roger more often!
"So Victoria, please explain to me how you see this - going with the flow - thing", I say to her.
"Well, actually there is no one explanation. There is no one way to "go with the flow". It is different in every moment. Right now, for us, it is this. We make a plan, but we are not attached to it. So if something else happens, we allow it to be so. Also, sometimes, going with the flow means that you get this deep inner knowing what you need to do. You don't know how it is going to end up, but you do it anyway. This could be anything. Leaving a job or a partner. You just have this deep inner knowing, that this situation is not good for you anymore and that you have to do something. Sometimes you might even do it without knowing how you are going to get money or where this road of getting singe again might take you, but you are following you heart anyway. This is one way of going with the flow and remember, always, every singe time, you do something brave like this, the Universe will have your back. This means that "when one door closes, other one opens". This takes a lot of trust and courage, but things will always work out, one way or another. Flow", she smiles.
"Also, "going with the flow" means that you might have an insight about what is your next step. It might be a new place to go to without knowing where it leads you, but you just follow this inner guidance. Going with the flow is something that is so personal. You might make a travel plan for six months, but inside that six months, you allow things to happen naturally without planning that much. Or you make some plans and leave some open. Again, flow."
"Isn't it so, that "going with the flow" means, that you can make a plan, but you are not attached to the outcome", asks Cynthia. "Yes love, you are right. This is one way of "going with the flow", answers Victoria.
"If I am totally honest, you Saija, are the only one who can define what "going with the flow" means to you in each moment. Sometimes you know what to do and where to go, sometimes you know some and you go anyway without knowing the outcome. "Going with the flow" is like this "gut feeling" you have and when you are following that, you are in the flow. Sometimes with a plan, sometimes half plan and sometimes just knowing a miner thing and jumping into the unknown. Basically what I would say is "WHEN YOU FOLLOW YOUR HEART, YOU ARE GOING WITH THE FLOW. Always. Just remember, that your life is your responsibility. So you have to decide and then the Universe will work with you. But it will not do it FOR you. If you want to win a million in lottery, Universe can not take your coupon to the shop, you have to do it. And then, only then, if is in your soul path, you might have a chance to win that million. You understand?", says Victoria.
Sure, I get it very well. And I have to be honest. There has been times where I have put the responsibility to Universes shoulders and it did not work!
Roger has been quiet, but now he says, "why didn't we do this before? Make a plan, but then allow it to flow. Why did we have to struggle with this with you Victoria?"
"Well, we are here to learn this co-operation between you and me and we did learn a lot, didn't we? And the thing is, we can never make wrong decisions. Never! We are here to learn, so what ever decision we make, it is always the right one in that moment."
Victoria is quiet for a while, but eventually she just can't keep the truth from us anymore. So she says, "Guys, if I am totally honest, the truth about this whole concept of "going with the flow...."
"The truth is that the Universe ALLOWS you to think that you are in control, but if this source power sees that you are doing something that is not meant for you, it will give you a nudge to the right direction. It can happen with a help of a friend or a stranger. It can happen through inner knowing or through synchronic events. Let me give you an example."
"Let's say that you don't want to work in you working place anymore, but you are afraid to leave. So you keep on going and you keep on having this anxiety and this unhappiness and for sure, it doesn't get less, quite the opposite. If you don't have a courage to follow these ques that your body is trying to send you, eventually, "the Universe will step in". This means that maybe in the working place things are starting to get worse and worse. More and more things are happening that are pushing you out of your comfort zone. Until there comes this big event and you are already so fed up, that you just quit without thinking it too much anymore. The only thing you have in your mind is "anything is better then this!" Yes babes, going with the flow!", she laughs.
"If your souls path is to stay in the same job for all your life, then this is what you signed in, before you were born. Then this is the way to get your lessons that you are meant to get in this lifetime. It doesn't mean that you are not "in the flow". The Universe keeps us all ALWAYS in the flow, but this happens in unique ways. In a way that was agreed by your soul before coming to earth. So "going with the flow" has nothing to do with courage, because flow is ever present. Some people make more bold moves, some live more solid life. And yet, there is always a flow."
"As you can see, you are always always taken care of. You truly are always in the flow. The though of "this one is going with the flow and this one is not", is just another way for people to create a separation between one another. Control is a man made concept, but in the Universes, this doesn't exist. If you look at animals or nature, there is a perfect flow all the time without any resistance. Humans have just forgotten this, but everything in this Universe is flowing. So what I am trying to say is, that you are actually always "in the flow", you just have forgotten this", says Victoria with a smile in her face. "How easy life would be, if we wouldn't fight against this flow. There would be so much less suffering and so much more joy."
I just absolutely love this!!! How easy can life be! I don't EVER have to worry about "living right" or "going with the flow", because I AM ALWAYS IN THE FLOW and I CAN NOT MAKE WRONG DECISIONS! Wow! Me and Cynthia are clapping our hands, we are so happy!
And now, we are asking Roger to get us classes and share his sparkling wine with us. This is big for me. And to Roger. "Can you imagine Roger how much easier life would be for you if you just would surrender?", I laugh. "I sooooo agree!", he says and takes a sip from his class. "Actually, I want to retire!", he declares laughing.
"Oh no love, I will not let you go as long as I am in this human body. You are stuck with me", I tell him. He comes to me, hugs me tightly and says that he wouldn't like to be anywhere else. And then we all toast to our lovely, beautiful crew! We all agree, we did learn a lot from Victoria today. She is absolutely amazing! Now, we are all happy and relaxed, we have at least one plan and at the same time, we are letting it flow. And we are now at peace with this. So we let it flow, we let it flow.....
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