LOVE LANGUAGE
We all know the fairy tale of Cinderella, don't we? I was just thinking that what if the three stepsisters would talk to her like this: "Hey you bitch, what the fuck are you doing? Get your ass out of here bitch and go and clean the floors or something! BITCH!" How does this sound to you?!? What would your child say if you would read a night time story like this to him/her?
Me and Victoria (my higher self) had a chat this morning, because I wanted to ask her opinion about the way people talk to each other these days. I have been watching different kinds of Tarot Card readings from Y-Tube and listening to songs too of cause. Somehow the language that are used these days kind of trembles me a bit. When did it come common to use words like "bitch" when you see your best friend? What if these words would be used in the fairy tales we read to our children? Why is it okey for us adults to call someone a bitch, but then we forbid these words from our kids? Why is it okey to say in your channel "if you don't like it, get the fuck out of here bitch"? WHAT? I kind of get it, but then again I don't. And even if I have liked the reading, I will not go back to this channel again. This energy is not my energy for sure.
Don't get me wrong. I do curse a lot! I use "fuck" a lot and all of us, we have to speak as we feel is fit to us! But it is like I have this inner, huge huge, respect towards myself (and from that space to others) and I have had it now for a long time, that I don't call myself "bitch" or would I call someone else with this word. I could never say to someone "Fuck you!". I used to could, but not anymore. Now I would feel awful if I would speak to someone like this. When did it come normal to use these words the same way as we use "hello" and why don't we even react if someone is saying these words to us?
As I look at this picture and this cute little girl (I used to was her), I can not imagine her using this kind of language. Or calling her "a bitch". I have to ask Victoria about this. She starts by saying that for decades we have been living under the fear energy and under the miss use of masculine power. All these words come because of this. Fear wants to be disrespectful. Fear wants to control by words and actions. Fear wants to hurt you with words and actions. We, as humans, have forgotten what love feels like and what kind of words it uses. It does not matter if we try to disguise the words with humor or tell our selves that these words don't mean nothing. It is just a word. We might use a million different excuses to use them. But Victoria reminds me, that this is the language of fear, not love.
Unconditional love is powerful just as it is and it doesn't need these kind of hush words at all. It is only when there are still work to be done within your self and your self love, when you keep on using words like this. There are still fears inside of you that come out with this kind of harshness. All these words are created by fear based ego.
Victoria also reminds me that always when we talk to people, we actually talk to ourselves. Others are just a reflection of how we speak and see ourselves. So when you call someone "a bitch", you actually are talking to yourself this way. Same thing when you shout someone "fuck you". The only thing that this is telling is the lack of self love that you still have for yourself. You can only talk to others as you talk to your self. "So yes", says Victoria. "These hash words are the product of the fear based world that we have been living in for so long".
I am thanking her for her comments and at the same time I realize why I don't ever use the word "bitch" when I talk to me or to someone else. I use words like love, lovie or darling. It just comes out so naturally for me. Now I understand that I have had this inner build respect for myself and others already for a long time! And today it is more clear to me then ever. I would never ever call a child "a bitch" and for me, adults are no different. I would never say to a child "fuck you" and for me, adults are no different. After all, inside of us lives this little girl or boy who is waiting to be loved, respected and cherished. I was born into this world innocent and pure and after the awakening and getting more deeper into self love, I just could not imagine using hash words like this.
Well, I say to Victoria that for sure we have to respect all beings just the way they are. So no judgement here! Just something I wanted to ponder about, since it is not so natural to me. Me and Victoria just want to remind you about your inner little girl or boy. Just keep her/him in mind the next time you use hash words towards yourself or someone else. And take a look at your own son or daughter. With these words, are you teaching them love or fear? What is your message to your own inner child as well as to your own kids?
Me, I will keep on loving myself and others no matter how you speak. You might not get very close to my personal life with this kind of language, but I do surely love you from the distance. After all, it is all about unconditional love and this is what we are all learning here in our own ways and in our own pace.
Me and Victoria (my higher self) had a chat this morning, because I wanted to ask her opinion about the way people talk to each other these days. I have been watching different kinds of Tarot Card readings from Y-Tube and listening to songs too of cause. Somehow the language that are used these days kind of trembles me a bit. When did it come common to use words like "bitch" when you see your best friend? What if these words would be used in the fairy tales we read to our children? Why is it okey for us adults to call someone a bitch, but then we forbid these words from our kids? Why is it okey to say in your channel "if you don't like it, get the fuck out of here bitch"? WHAT? I kind of get it, but then again I don't. And even if I have liked the reading, I will not go back to this channel again. This energy is not my energy for sure.
Don't get me wrong. I do curse a lot! I use "fuck" a lot and all of us, we have to speak as we feel is fit to us! But it is like I have this inner, huge huge, respect towards myself (and from that space to others) and I have had it now for a long time, that I don't call myself "bitch" or would I call someone else with this word. I could never say to someone "Fuck you!". I used to could, but not anymore. Now I would feel awful if I would speak to someone like this. When did it come normal to use these words the same way as we use "hello" and why don't we even react if someone is saying these words to us?
As I look at this picture and this cute little girl (I used to was her), I can not imagine her using this kind of language. Or calling her "a bitch". I have to ask Victoria about this. She starts by saying that for decades we have been living under the fear energy and under the miss use of masculine power. All these words come because of this. Fear wants to be disrespectful. Fear wants to control by words and actions. Fear wants to hurt you with words and actions. We, as humans, have forgotten what love feels like and what kind of words it uses. It does not matter if we try to disguise the words with humor or tell our selves that these words don't mean nothing. It is just a word. We might use a million different excuses to use them. But Victoria reminds me, that this is the language of fear, not love.
Unconditional love is powerful just as it is and it doesn't need these kind of hush words at all. It is only when there are still work to be done within your self and your self love, when you keep on using words like this. There are still fears inside of you that come out with this kind of harshness. All these words are created by fear based ego.
Victoria also reminds me that always when we talk to people, we actually talk to ourselves. Others are just a reflection of how we speak and see ourselves. So when you call someone "a bitch", you actually are talking to yourself this way. Same thing when you shout someone "fuck you". The only thing that this is telling is the lack of self love that you still have for yourself. You can only talk to others as you talk to your self. "So yes", says Victoria. "These hash words are the product of the fear based world that we have been living in for so long".
I am thanking her for her comments and at the same time I realize why I don't ever use the word "bitch" when I talk to me or to someone else. I use words like love, lovie or darling. It just comes out so naturally for me. Now I understand that I have had this inner build respect for myself and others already for a long time! And today it is more clear to me then ever. I would never ever call a child "a bitch" and for me, adults are no different. I would never say to a child "fuck you" and for me, adults are no different. After all, inside of us lives this little girl or boy who is waiting to be loved, respected and cherished. I was born into this world innocent and pure and after the awakening and getting more deeper into self love, I just could not imagine using hash words like this.
Well, I say to Victoria that for sure we have to respect all beings just the way they are. So no judgement here! Just something I wanted to ponder about, since it is not so natural to me. Me and Victoria just want to remind you about your inner little girl or boy. Just keep her/him in mind the next time you use hash words towards yourself or someone else. And take a look at your own son or daughter. With these words, are you teaching them love or fear? What is your message to your own inner child as well as to your own kids?
Me, I will keep on loving myself and others no matter how you speak. You might not get very close to my personal life with this kind of language, but I do surely love you from the distance. After all, it is all about unconditional love and this is what we are all learning here in our own ways and in our own pace.
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